Deal Breakers

Everyone has deal breakers. The things we are just not willing to deal with in a relationship. Some people just bite their tongue and others let it be known. I am the latter. There are so many more that could probably replace the lower ones, but these are my Top 10 Deal Breakers in a Relationship.

1. Cheating

This one goes without explanation.

2. Doing Drugs

So you only smoke weed. Awesome. I’m not looking for someone who is lazy and thinks a good workout is a session with the bong and a bag of chips watching Family Guy. And we all know coke heads will do just about anything. Why do you think most drug deals are ugly? It’s because they get to hang with hot dumb chicks who like to party and make bad decisions. If you do drugs, check please, I’m out.

3. Smoking

Sure you only smoke when you drink, but that still tells me that you are the type of personal who can rationalize doing dumb things. If you want to smoke that’s your call, but I’m throwing in the friend card.

4. Bad Breath

You might be a 10, but if your breath is so bad that I don’t even want to kiss you then “Houston, we have a problem”.

5. Lies or Dishonest

If you are shady, don’t call or text back for days and always seem to have an excuse then you are definitely not for me. Don’t let the door hit you on the way out.

6. Bad in Bed

I believe sex is a crucial part to a lasting relationship. You have to have that physical connection as well as a mental connection with someone in order to want to spend the rest of your life with them. Taking it down to my level, if you are bad in bed we should probably just be friends. How you could get married to someone and have sex for the first time on your wedding night is so beyond me I won’t even say anything. To each their own.

7. Not Caring About Health and Fitness

Working out, eating healthy and making good decisions in life is something that interests me. If you are the junk food, drive thru, I don’t workout kind of girl there is just no hope.

8. Doesn’t Enjoy Adventure

Traveling to exotic places, trying new food, learning new cultures or doing things out of your comfort zone is what makes life so much fun. If you have that “why would I want go to there, I don’t want to try that, I can’t do that” attitude you might as well take the first flight back to Boringsville.

9. High Maintenance

Every guy wants a girl that is fun, social, good looking, etc. but  we have many lines  drawn in the sand and for me being high maintenance is one of them. If you can’t get your hair wet at the pool without getting mad, if you have to put make-up on just to go to the store, if it takes you forever to get ready at night, check please.

10. Goal is to Leave Town

I have met so many people that just don’t like living in Richmond, Virginia or have just had enough of it for many different reasons. We are all different and want different things out of life so I have no problem with this fact. As a born and raised Richmonder though I love living here. It provides so many opportunities, the people are great, it has a thriving restaurant and bar scene, it’s close to the mountains, the ocean and the nation’s capitol, but for some this still isn’t enough and they must leave and find greener pastures. Are their places that I would enjoy living in more? Absolutely, but when you surround yourself with great friends and have an amazing family you realize you have what those others don’t so why run from it. Bottom line here is if you are that girl that is looking for you first ticket out of here I’m playing the friends card.

What are your Top 10 Deal Breakers? I think this is an interesting topic so share in the comments below.